Divorce Conflicts Within Our Kids

Marital Problems Within Our Daycare

this is the daycare's attorney

this is the daycare’s attorney

Recently the parents of a kid from our center who have been undergoing a long and tedious divorce process finally concluded their divorce. Although they may feel like they have solved their problem in a matured way, I personally witnessed first-hand, how much their kid suffered during those many months they were going through the divorce. According to a close associate and family attorney friend of mine, who works closely with a divorce attorney at Santa Cruz Law HQ, which is a lawyer referral service, the majority of the kids whose parents are going through a divorce, suffer emotionally and usually become traumatized in one way or the other.

Kids & Trauma

If only parents would also take their children into consideration whenever they are taking such serious decisions as divorce, then we would also be seeing less cases of children suffering under the parents’ divorce. The trauma affects children in different ways depending on their age. Younger kids from toddlers to five year olds will usually display more clinginess, more temper tantrums, and sleep disturbances. The older kids will usually develop a fear of loneliness, probably becoming more introverted, and develop some sort of shame for his/her family’s troubles, and may even begin to feel different from other kids.

The only good news about the whole situation is that the majority of divorce-kids will adjust within a few years, usually within 3 years. This means that most kids will somehow come to terms with their situation and move on with life, but that is for most kids. There are a few kids, like this kid from our center, who will most probably suffer for a much longer time. This period of post traumatic issues seems to depend on how deeply the kid was emotionally devastated during the divorce period. While it is nobody’s business to tell a couple to either stick together, or to get a divorce, there are few steps that can be taken to assure that a kid caught in the middle of a divorce does not have to suffer.

Tips on Helping Kids through a Divorce

The following steps can be taken to reduce the stress of a divorce process on your kid. While they will definitely not erase the fact that the parents are divorced, they will at least reduce the emotional suffering.

– Use a good family lawyer

Using a good family attorney removes the stress from you, and helps you to focus on the things that matter in your life. It is only when you are deeply troubled that your child will also become troubled. Since really good divorce attorneys are hard to find, you will be better served using an attorney referral service like the Santa Cruz Law HQ.

– Avoid Conflicts in front of the Kids

Seeing the parents fight can be a very hurting experience for any kid, so avoid it at all costs.

– Maintain a Mature Relationship with your Ex

Your marriage may be ending, but your relationship will definitely continue. Your kids should know this, and also know that you will continue to be respectful and considerate towards each other.

Wrap Up

A divorce can be difficult for parents, but it doesn’t also need to hurt the kids involved. By taking the right steps, a caring parent should be able to prevent his or her dear kid, or kids from emotional anguish. Apart from the steps listed above, check out http://www.santacruzlawhq.com/top-family-law-santa-cruz/ and there are surely other actions that can be taken in addition, but the most important action of all is to have a good divorce attorney. If you don’t already have one, then use a lawyer referral service like www.santacruzlawhq.com.

Our Daycare In Las Vegas

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we are thinking of moving to henderson

I have been seriously thinking about expanding this day-care business recently. I know it might mean that I am no longer simply doing this for the joy of the kids, but now more for the money, still I am considering it. So what if I join the world of business? I mean, I can take care of kids really well, so why not build a very big career out of it? I must confess that this thought did not originate from me personally, but was rather planted in my mind by a real estate agent from Henderson, Nevada, named Blake Leavitt. His website is www.blakesellsvegas.com and he has been trying to get me to see the future potential of the idea.

Big Business Dreaming

Since my eyes were opened to the possibility of expanding my business by Blake Leavitt, I have been imagining how things could turn out. I could really turn this into a really big business like some other day care centers I have seen, which have 3, 5 and even more branches. That would mean, having more employees and spending less time with the kids. It would also mean larger incomes and also bigger tax and legal issues. I would become a true business owner and face all the challenges of business, as well as all its benefits and profits. Maybe I should give it a try, maybe I should not.

The Vegas Situation

Here in Las Vegas, the day care center business is rather crazy because many parents have abnormal working times. So a single parent may bring in his or her kid in the afternoon today, but next week, it could be in the night, when the parent is doing a night shift, for example. This means that if I want to expand, I must have to seriously consider the 24 hour care-center business model. I must consider the proper real estate property for it. I must be in a good location that is easily accessible for most working parents. It must have certain basic amenities for the children’s play times and for learning. Finally, I must have to work out a proper billing method, so that I can know what to charge for daytime care, and what to charge for evening/night time care.

Needless to say, http://www.blakesellsvegas.com/ will have to be of great help to me with his real estate connections and expertise, if this project should become a success. As I see it, the choice of real estate property will determine a lot about the business’ success. How good is the building? How nice are the surroundings? and is it easily reachable, or is it difficult to find? Blake has promised to be helpful in finding the correct place anyway, but I will rather wait until I see what he comes up with.

Final Thoughts

Although I’m edging towards doing this project of business expansion, I’m still not 100% sure if I can make it or not. I will probably go over the details with Blake one more time, and maybe also get some advice from an attorney, before I finally make up my mind. But as things stand, I just may do it!

One of our children’s fathers gave us a very good lesson today!

Our children, Brad, his father gave us a very good lesson about taking care of your lawn and garden and staying warm over the winter. He wrote this blog excerpt on his website, from which we are pasting from.

Brad’s Dad’s Advice About Staying Warm Over The Winter

An unflued gas heater from the 1970's

An unflued gas heater from the 1970’s

We want to provide you with home heating options for the colder seasons. We all would like to stay warm this winter however, many people, unfortunately, do not invest wisely into heating their homes.

It is now commonly known that it is cheaper to install heat pump as they give you the greatest return on investment. They may cost a little bit more to install to begin with but they are the cheapest to run.

Many people, unfortunately, use unflued natural gas heater which is more expensive to run.

The benefit of using natural gas is that the prices typically don’t fluctuate like they do for petrol. And because natural gas is difficult to export world prices don’t have much influence on local pricing.

Whatever you do, move away from unflued gas heaters or electricity heaters the plug-in type. These are the ones that will cost you the most money to run during winter.

There are plenty of resources on wine such as consumer magazines that can give you additional data so that you can make an informed decision before contacting your local gas heating installers.

It is best to call your local gas installer or communicate via their website and have a talk with the about what you would like to do. The company will provide you with the best options within the framework of what you want to do.

They can also provide you with alternative solutions to enhance the warmth and comfort of your home during the coldest seasons of the year.

So whatever you do this once make sure that you have gas heating or you will be paying significant costs to keep your home warm with your current heating solution.

Our New Location Near Regency at Summerlin

Check Out Our New Daycare Location

We are moving our location into a community for people aged 55+ called Regency at Summerlin by Toll Brothers. This beautiful community is brand new and was completed just this year. The properties are located in Summerlin, NV.


Summerlin, Nevada is a community located in Las Vegas, Nevada and unincorporated Clark County. Summerlin sits on 22,500 acres in the Las Vegas Valley of Nevada. The community is under development by the Howard Hughes Corporation. Howard Hughes named the property for his grandmother, Jean Amelia Summerlin. The community has a population of nearly 100,000. It is among fastest-growing communities in the Nevada. In 2014, Money Magazine named Summerlin one of the “Best Places to Live in America.” With numerous places to shop, visit and see as well as great schools, a high standard of living and beautiful scenic views, it is easy to see why so many people choose to make Summerlin, Nevada their home.

The property was first acquired by the Hughes family in 1952. In 1976, patriarch Howard Robard Hughes, Jr. died and left the property to his heirs. The heirs, headed by Howard Hughes saw the potential to create a master-planned community. He founded the Summa Corporation to oversee the Hughes family’s vast empire of business and land holdings. He changed the property’s name from Husite to Summerlin. Construction of the large community began in 1990.

The community has plenty to do and is hub of recreation in Nevada. With an extensive trail system, numerous parks and pools, nine golf courses, many shopping centers, medical and cultural facilities, three resort hotels and close proximity to downtown Las Vegas, residents of stay busy living a vibrant lifestyle.

Summerlin is home to the Summerlin Trail System. The Summerlin Trail System comprises more than 150 miles and feeds into more than 2,000 public trails. It is an extremely comprehensive system. There are five different kinds of trails. They include street-side, village, natural, regional and bicycle. Street-side trails form the backbone of the system. They are landscaped on both sides and set back well away from the road. According to the Howard Hughes Corporation, about 70 percent of residents report using it at least once a month. This beautiful and extensive system is a key feature for many residents of the community.


Danielle Reed – Summerlin Real Estate Agent http://www.daniellereed.bhhsnv.com/regency-summerlin-luxury-homes.aspx 

Regency at Summerlin https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJiKHtgHTJU

Summerlin History http://summerlin.com/history/

Money Magazine http://time.com/money/

Online Marketing Really Helped Our Business


aardvarkworks SEO and internet marketing

AardvarkWorks SEO and internet marketing

Search engine optimization is essential to the success of any online business. If you happen to be running an online business, it is imperative that you make the most of SEO services as this could make or break your business.

There are numerous differences between SEO for desktop devices and SEO for mobile devices. Normally, unless you have the latest in mobile phone technology, the differences in these types of SEO can include differences in loading time and graphics between your mobile phone and your laptop. What is true for all mobile devices is that accessing the internet requires a lot more movement/scrolling because mobile phone screens are a lot smaller than computer screens. Hence, it takes a lot more navigation to view the contents of an entire web page.

Normally, SEO for a mobile site is usually done following the typical SEO rules that are used when doing SEO for a desktop site. A website that has good ranking on the search engine results on a desktop device may not has as high a rank on the search engine results of a mobile device.

Typically, though, most web developers these days have to consider both desktop and mobile users, as well as the various platforms available. There are many requirements that search engines like Google has put in place for developers to meet for their websites to rank well in search engine results on basically any platform.

Little Sunshine Play Center is a day care facility that aims at providing the best day care for children. Their website was built by Aardvark Works, with search engine optimization done so as to best benefit the day care centre.

About Aardvark Works

Aardvark Works is an agency based in New Plymouth that specializes in search engine optimization and marketing. Basically, it is a company that seeks to make all its clients’ websites sit well in search engine results. In the world of internet marketing, there is no better service to invest in.


How Little Sunshine Play Centre Benefited From Aardvark Works SEO

1. It has helped increase traffic

A website that is properly optimized for a search engine will definitely rank well in search engine results. As a result, thanks to human nature, such well-placed site will attract visitors in droves.

2. It has provided an ROI (return on investment)

SEO agencies like to track the results of their work. For instance, an SEO services company like Aardvark Works will want to know how well the website it has optimized is doing in a particular region. These kinds of statistics also help the company and client know if anything needs to improve on the website where SEO is concerned at least.

3. It has helped promote the brand

The better a website ranks in a search engine result, the more visitors it will gain. This is a simple truth. Therefore, the online presence of Little Sunshine Play Centre has been increased; hence the brand itself has been promoted.

4. It has provided cost effective marketing

SEO is just about the most pocket friendly promotional strategy out there, as a lot can be gained from properly placing and using a few words. Search engine optimization also allows for widespread brand awareness.


Selecting A Daycare Center For Your Child


Sеlесtіng ԛuаlіtу сhіldсаrе for your child іѕ an іmроrtаnt tаѕk, but іt dоеѕ nоt need tо bе оvеrwhеlmіng. Onсе уоu undеrѕtаnd whаt qualities to look for іn a ԛuаlіtу dаусаrе сеntеr, іt will bе simple tо make a confident аnd іnfоrmеd childcare ѕеlесtіоn.

When evaluating daycare сеntеrѕ, nоtе thе following:

Thе рhуѕісаl environment of a ԛuаlіtу dаусаrе center is ѕаfе, сlеаn, аnd uncluttered. Whеn уоu еvаluаtе a dаусаrе сеntеr, the аtmоѕрhеrе should bе brіght, соlоrful and inviting. Thе ѕрасе ѕhоuld bе designed with children іn mіnd, ѕо thе furniture ѕhоuld be сhіld ѕіzеd аnd mаtеrіаlѕ ѕhоuld be ассеѕѕіblе wіth displays at the сhіld’ѕ еуе lеvеl. Yоu аlѕо wаnt tо mаkе ѕurе thаt different аrеаѕ are dеѕіgnаtеd fоr different uѕеѕ. Fоr еxаmрlе, messy аrеаѕ ѕhоuld bе near a ѕіnk аnd ԛuіеt аrеаѕ ѕhоuld bе аwау from building blосkѕ.

Intеrvіеw and observe caregivers саrеfullу. In аddіtіоn tо a proper еduсаtіоnаl background, ѕtаff should be аblе to іntеrасt оnе-оn-оnе with children іn a wаrm and responsive wау. The rаtе of staff turnover ѕhоuld bе lоw аnd саrеgіvеrѕ should be consistent. Find оut whеthеr оr not the staff ѕtауѕ сurrеnt through classes, wоrkѕhорѕ. Alѕо, рау саrеful attention to thе rаtіо оf сhіldrеn tо caregivers. Cаrеgіvеrѕ ѕhоuld be rеѕроnѕіblе for small grоuрѕ of children. Thе rесоmmеndеd ratios for adults tо сhіldrеn аrе: іnfаntѕ-1:3, toddlers-1:5, preschool-1:8, аnd ѕсhооl аgе-1:12.

Licensing аnd Accreditation
Find оut іf thе center іѕ іn compliance wіth applicable laws or licensing rеgulаtіоnѕ. Licensed programs have met the minimum ѕtаndаrdѕ fоr healthy аnd safe саrе. If уоu аrе іn ѕеаrсh оf аn еxсерtіоnаl рrоgrаm, fіnd one that іѕ ассrеdіtеd bу the Nаtіоnаl Aѕѕосіаtіоn for thе Eduсаtіоn оf Yоung Children (NAEYC). Thіѕ is a vоluntаrу process whеrе рrоgrаmѕ show they hаvе met a hіghеr ѕtаndаrd оf care determined by the NAEYC organization.

Sаfеtу аnd Hеаlth: The еnvіrоnmеnt ѕhоuld bе сlеаn аnd wеll vеntіlаtеd. Tоуѕ ѕhоuld bе сlеаnеd аnd in gооd working order. Thеrе should be specific роlісіеѕ rеgаrdіng injuries, contacting раrеntѕ in саѕе оf еmеrgеnсіеѕ, аnd mеdісаl іntеrvеntіоn. The staff should bе trained in CPR, аnd fіrѕt aid should bе оn-ѕіtе. Chіldrеn ѕhоuld nеvеr be lеft unаttеndеd.

The Program/Curriculum
Whеn уоu аrе еvаluаtіng a сhіldсаrе рrоgrаm, fіnd оut if the сurrісulum іѕ vаrіеd ассоrdіng tо age. For children aged thrее аnd undеr, ԛuаlіtу programs ѕhоuld еmрhаѕіzе рlау activities that enhance development rather thаn formal еduсаtіоnаl curricula. Aѕ сhіldrеn develop, thеу can thеn bеnеfіt frоm ѕсhооl readiness асtіvіtіеѕ that соmbіnе еlеmеntѕ оf formal education with рlау аnd free expression. All рrоgrаmѕ ѕhоuld іnсludе both small and lаrgе grоuр activities, аnd a bаlаnсе between rеѕt аnd асtіvіtу.

Family Invоlvеmеnt
Be sure tо lооk fоr a daycare fасіlіtу that promotes a high lеvеl of family involvement. A ԛuаlіtу daycare program wіll еnсоurаgе раrеntѕ tо ѕеrvе on thе board оf dіrесtоrѕ, tо bесоmе іnvоlvеd аѕ volunteers, аnd to hаvе іnрut into center роlісіеѕ. Aѕ well, a gооd сеntеr wеlсоmеѕ vіѕіtѕ from parents. Bе lееrу оf thоѕе рrоgrаmѕ without аn “ореn door” роlісу where уоu аrе wеlсоmе tо drор bу and visit whеnеvеr you wіѕh. A good рrоgrаm will іnfоrm уоu оf your сhіld’ѕ рrоgrеѕѕ аnd daycare еxреrіеnсеѕ оn a regular bаѕіѕ.